Orders over $25 qualify for free shipping!
Added to Cart
Cart Summary

Blog

5 Pro-tips to Mastering the Art of Cunnilingus
 
Jul 11, 2016

You may think you are already a cunnilingus master, but if you ask the average woman about her past experiences of partners going down on her, chances are she has more than a few horror stores.

 

Mastering the Art of Cunnilingus

 

 

From ‘jabby lizard-tongue’ to an ‘aggressive finger-fuck’ women often get shafted when it comes to pleasurable oral sex being reciprocated – but settle in and listen up, we’ve put together all of the pro-tips you need to truly reach master-champion status of the art of cunnilingus.

 

Pro-tip #1: Make her feel appreciated

 

Certain women can feel uncomfortable receiving oral sex – but that certainly doesn’t mean she won’t enjoy it. Whether she is insecure about the appearance of her genitals, her scent or taste, or even having the focus all on her – a woman can often feel undeserving of the act of oral sex. Your job is to make her feel appreciated and desired.

 

007 Gear: One Condoms

 

After all, for most women, oral sex is the most pleasurable sexual act and should not be approached as “foreplay” that you spend only a few minutes on. Make it clear to her that you are going to savor every minute of the experience and that you are as turned on as she is. Spend time enjoying her, and let her know how much you are enjoying her.

 

Pro-tip #2: Warm her up

 

On average, women take 20 minutes to reach orgasm, so it’s important not the rush the act of cunnilingus. Take your time kissing, hugging and touching your partner, making sure she is aroused. For heightened arousal, try adding a touch of arousal gel to her clitoris, like Wet wOw Clitoral Arousal Gel. The tingle-inducing lubricant will have her moaning from cloud 9, as she climbs towards the big O.

 

You can even check some awesome Condomania Sex Enhancements.

 

Mastering the Art of Cunnilingus

 

Pro-tip #3: Settle in for the long haul

 

Make sure you are in a comfortable position and that your body is supported. You should be able to rest your head comfortably between her legs without ever missing a lick. Once you’re between her legs, start with light vertical licks from top to bottom. Use your tongue to arouse her, but make sure to focus on broad consistent strokes.

 

A Good Read: How to Give Oral Sex With Condoms

 

A hard jabbing tip of your tongue is not the way to go. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, you don’t want to dive in right away. Start by spreading her labia and licking the front of the commissure, just above the clit. With your free hand, you can caress her, gently squeezing her nipples and touching her breasts, stomach or butt cheeks.

 

Pro-tip #4: Feel free to use your hands

 

Don’t be afraid to incorporate a few fingers while you’re down there. Try curling two fingers towards her belly button once they’re inserts. Firmly, make a ‘come hither’ motion to stimulate her g-spot. Another option to fingering, you can use the labia to massage the clitoris by gently pressing the lips together and massaging the clit in circular motions between your fingers.

 

Pro-tip #5: Stay the course as she approaches the big O

 

Our most important tip, as your partner starts to near organism, - do not change anything. For most women, consistency is key; if what you’re doing is working, stick with it. As her intensity rises, stay deliberate and methodical with your approach until she happily climaxes. And voila – you’ve done it! Tell her how much you enjoyed taking every inch of her in, and pat yourself on the back – you are now a cunnilingus master!