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How to give the best blowjob of your life!
 
Jul 13, 2016

When it comes to turning a man on, most would agree that nothing makes a dude feel more excited or dominant than receiving a sexy blowjob. Whether you’re already a pro, or looking for a few pointers, we’ve rounded up the key elements that make this ‘job’ feel like anything but work!

 

How to give the best blowjob of your life

 

Assume the Position

There’s no shortage of possible positions when it comes to giving great head, but keep in mind that you will likely remain in that stance for about 5-10 minutes, so you’re going to want to be comfortable. For a saucy twist on a regular kneel, give him your out-of-this-world blowjob in front of a mirror.

 

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While he stands, kneel in front of him, with your sides facing the mirror; allowing him to watch you (and you to watch too) while you suck him off adds a whole other level of voyeuristic pleasure to the experience for you both!

 

Find your Rhythm

A little teasing is ok, but most guys want you to get down to business right away. Work your mouth up and down his penis a few times, keeping your tongue broad and flat with good pressure against the underside of his cock. Wrap your lips around his shaft and maintain a tight seal, without making any contact with your teeth.

 

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Work with your Hands

Many women’s mouths aren’t big enough to accommodate her man’s full penis, but incorporating your hands into the mix to stimulate the shaft and balls is a great way to give pleasure all over. Remember, the shaft tends to be the least sensitive part of the penis, so use more pressure that you would think. Work with your dominant hand to stimulate the shaft, while your secondary hand is free to wander.

 

 

The wetter the better

The wetter the better when it comes to a good blowjob. Don’t ever worry about having too much saliva, let is slowly fall out of your mouth as you work your way up and down his dick. If you are having difficulty producing enough saliva to keep things really wet, consider incorporating a flavoured lube that you both can enjoy like Astroglide’s Sensual Strawberry Lubricant.

 

Your Basic Move

Once you’ve gotten him lubed up, use your hand and mouth together by bringing your lips down to meet your hand and keeping your mouth and fist glued together as you move up and down his penis. This will be your basic move that you can return to at any point throughout the blowjob.

 

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Tantalize him with Variations

Most men enjoy variety during a blowjob, so to switch things up, try varying your basic move with some of the following techniques: Make your tongue pointy, and lick up and down or side to side. Hold the base of his penis in your hand while you move your lips back and forth over the ridge between the head of his penis and the shaft. You’ll only need to move about an inch.

 

 

Spend a little time focusing on his frenulum, which is the seam on the underside of his penis. For many men, this is the most sensitive area. Try sucking directly on the frenulum itself. Do the basic stroke with your hand and mouth, but turn your wrist back and forth as you move up and down. When you need a break, you can rub his dick over your lips, face, or breasts.

 

Don’t forget his sidekicks

Now you’re in the swing of things, but don’t forget the balls! Using your hands and your mouth, gently take his entire scrotum into your non-dominant hand, rolling his balls around while you continue to suck him off. You can also try licking in between the balls and going from back to front with a broad flat tongue. 

 

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If your man is comfortable (and we do suggest asking first), work in a little butt action too, especially if you’re looking to move things along. With a finger in the asshole, the remaining fingers massaging his balls and your other hand on his dick while you suck – you will get him to blow his load in no time.

 

To Spit or Swallow

From a guy’s perspective, part of feeling connected to a woman is seeing her swallow when he finishes. However, if you’re genuinely uncomfortable with swallowing, stash a box of tissues beside the bed and discretely spit into them when he finishes.

 

Enthusiasm is Everything

Have you ever had a guy go down on you when he seemed hesitant or like he wasn’t enjoying it? Did you enjoy it? No!

 

Now think of a time you had a guy relish you with enthusiasm, tell you how wonderful you looked and tasted and how much he was enjoying pleasuring you. Enthusiasm seriously makes the act hotter, and it goes both ways, so suck that cock with gusto and you will have him moaning before you know it.  Bonus, once you find yourself loving the experience of ruling your man’s pleasure almost as much as he’s enjoying it– you’ll know you’ve truly become a master of A+ blowjob master! Congrats.