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This is essential to truly relax and get in the mood before you start masturbating and then make sure that you won't be disturbed. For most people, this means masturbating in their bedroom or doing it when they are alone in the house. Turning your phone off or to silence it is always good practice too. This is good when you like getting vocal while masturbating and you don’t want someone hearing you.
Get In the Mood.
If you want to be sure that you climax when masturbating is firstly getting in the mood. This is something that varies greatly from person to person. Whether you just need to lie down in bed or shower and put lotion on, light some candles, or put on some of your favorite classical music. Whatever you prefer, is up to you. Just do what you like and get yourself in the mood.
Having fun with your Clit.
Most woman will experience that a clitoral orgasm is far easier than having a vaginal orgasm when learning how to masturbate. Firstly we will direct our focus to the clit which is a small nub of firm skin the gets slightly bigger when you're aroused. The clit is located just above your vagina and is concealed under small folds of skin. It becomes very sensitive, especially right after you reach a climax. To stimulate it, try gently rubbing it with your fingers, finger vibe, or clitoral vibrator. You may find that it's so sensitive, that it's actually more pleasurable providing the clit with indirect stimulation. This means rubbing around it, rather than touching it directly. Start off by massaging it slowly and gently before gradually building up how intensely you must touch it to reach a climax. Then as you climax, remember to stop as it will become very sensitive to touch.
Now it's your G Spot's turn.
Another type of orgasm that many women prefer over the regular clitoral orgasms is G Spot orgasm. But before you can start stimulating it, you need to locate your G Spot. It will only appear and become fully engorged when you become aroused. It's located on the front wall inside the vagina, normally about 1.5 inches from the vaginal entrance. Holding your palm flat against your stomach with your fingers pointing downwards, slowly moving your fingers down the stomach, sliding them inside your vagina and hooking them backwards, will allow you to feel a slightly rough patch of skin feeling like the top of your palate in your mouth, is the G Spot. There are a number of ways you can stimulate it. You can make a 'come-hither' motion with your fingers to massage it, you can hold your fingers pressed against it, and move the rest of your arm to stimulate it, or you can get a G Spot Vibrator to help out with the process. Play around and see what works best for you.
Lubricant is your friend.
If you have trouble reaching orgasm, or you just plain want to have a more pleasurable, sensual experience, then I recommend using lubricant. There are so many different types of lube whether it's water based, silicone based, cooling, warming, or something else you are sure to find one or two that you like. There are even vegan friendly and organic lubes out there. Try a lubricant sampler pack if you don't know what you like. That way you can try out several different kinds of lube until you find one that you like!
Toys can be great fun.
A great way to achieve more intensity your orgasms is learning how to masturbate using sex toys. There are a number of different ones that you can use. Vibrators are considered to be the best for replacing your fingers, but in my opinion the ones that have adjustable speeds are well worth it! Dildos are great for replacing your man's penis when he's not around. A lot of dildos also be used as vibrators. While there are a huge variety of different sex toys available that you can use on yourself, the last one I will mention is a butt plug. Using a butt plug while masturbating is something many women find to intensify their orgasms when they masturbate.